I called myself a domestic goddess thinking I was the master of all tasks...lol  what a joke...I wasn't the master of anything really. Just failing at pretty much everything....one by one I've been able to address various things and correct them.. but at what costs. I had to try every wrong decision before taking my husbands intial correct advice. Seriously, why must we be so damn stubborn. I'm not the only one he is too, but as a culture we are stubborn and selfish. It is ingrained in us from birth... why do we cling to that notion.